Right, my ex's best friend from sixth form and our mutual friend has just contacted me to tell me that my ex has deleted him and others as a friend on Facebook. Wow. These guys were really really good friends, this guy went to reading with me and my ex (third wheel but that's how close they were) and now suddenly he's deleted him on Facebook. I mean I know they haven't spoken much since Christmas, the friend told me, but I have no idea what caused this. It seems he really is cutting all the old people out of his life. In a way it makes me feel better that I wasn't the only one. The ex has a real hate club back in this town now, no friends for him when he comes back in the Summer, if he comes back. He can rot in the city for all us home lot care.
Hey, I dont have an account here but I have been reading you blog since it started as me and my boyfriend broke up at around the same time. Just thought I'd comment to say how well you're doing and that my ex recently did the EXACT same thing as yours. We were in the same friend group and he deleted 75% of them off facebook last week - totally agree with feeling a bit pleased that you're not the only one they cut out entirely.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, sorry for the random message off a total stranger. I hope everything works out :)
It's good to know that I'm not the only one who has a crazy ex doing things like that. In fact yesterday he rang his old best friend to say horrible things about me and to try and justify his deleting. I think maybe guys just get like that after break ups, feel the need to cut everything out.
ReplyDeleteAnd don't worry about the message, random messages keep me writing this thing :) I hope your doing okay after your break up and remember the only way is up from here:)It looks like we're both better off without them x