He sent me a text making sure I was home safe after we'd meet up and said he hoped I'd had a nice time with my friends. He texted me on Saturday asking if I was okay and said that he would ring me in the evening. In the evening we just talked about everyday life and at the end he mentioned that he was seeing this as 'more of an extended break than a breakup' and told me to expect a letter very soon.
It get's worse again though, on Sunday he rang me at 8pm to tell me that he had decided he had no idea about how he felt about me and wanted to cut all contact. He told me he would tell me by the following weekend what his feelings were. So I was left waiting and crushed again.
Don't expect a letter. You need to take control here, you're letting him make all the decisions. Don't do that, you'll be sorry when you look back on this for not taking charge of your own life. Do not sit around waiting for him to decide what he wants. You said you had a grown up relationship well now's the time to start behaving like a grown up. He does not own you, you need to live your own life, because believe me if you let him dictate it then you'll resent it down the road.
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